Factor Items
251 items, shown in the original order.
- It is a disgrace to appear to be wrong. -.362
- I don't like to apologize. -.326
- I don't make excuses when I screw up. .319
- I am right, others are wrong. -.305
- Fairness is very important, even if it proves me wrong. .296
- I prefer to hide my failures from others. -.289
- I dislike people I can't control. -.272
- I'm defensive. -.269
- If someone is better than me at something, I'm fine letting them take the lead. .269
- I always treat others as I would like to be treated. .257
- I am too proud to admit my weaknesses. -.252
- I try to forgive and forget. .249
- I get what I want by controlling others. -.248
- I respect the opinions of others. .244
- I find that it takes a lot to make me feel angry at someone. .240
- I would rather be too mean than too nice. -.238
- I am tolerant to different ideas and beliefs. .236
- If someone's argument appears to be strong and contradicting of what I believe, I will listen all the more carefully. .235
- I am humble. .234
- I express my thanks to those who care about me. .230
- I don't like to be told to lighten up. -.224
- I like people I can control. -.224
- I am willing to forgive others. .223
- I am not easily frustrated. .221
- I am open to change. .220
- I have a bad temper. -.220
- The truth is more important than my image. .219
- I am not good at working with a group.- .217
- I am good at taking advice. .217
- I will cheat in order to win. -.217
- I look at the bright side of life. .217
- Helping others is my oxygen. .215
- I find appearing better than others rewarding. -.214
- I have a short fuse. -.213
- I either love people or hate people. -.212
- I have no problem with the fact that some people are better than me. .209
- I enjoy lying, duping others. -.209
- I make people feel welcome. .207
- If someone hurts me, I have a need to get revenge. -.205
- I like to work behind the scenes without credit. .205
- I accept people as they are. .204
- Achievement is more important than material or financial reward. .204
- I work hard. .204
- I sympathize with others' feelings. .204
- I am not easily frustrated. .201
- When I'm not happy, I make changes to my life. .201
- I tend to have an internal dislike/disdain for people that are more attractive than me. -.201
- I value cooperation over competition. .201
- I don't like to confess. -.200
- I complain a lot. -.197
- I am intensely possessive. -.197
- I believe vengeance is sometimes necessary. -.196
- I understand people who think differently. .195
- I tend to reject any thought, however logical, that might lead to a disturbance of feeling. -.193
- I have rage issues. -.193
- No matter how good things are I find something th complain about. -.193
- When I don't want to explain things I just say 'its complicated'. -.192
- I find it very hard to lie. .191
- I express my thanks to those who care about me. .190
- I worry about what people think of me. -.190
- I find it hard to forgive others. -.190
- I disregard others and look down on them with an arrogant eye. -.189
- I'd rather put problems/mistakes behind me, instead of taking responsibility for them / figuring out what caused them. -.189
- I treat everyone the same. .188
- I find appreciating others rewarding. .188
- I don't know what will make me happy. -.188
- I see flaws/weaknesses as opportunites for fixes/improvements. .185
- I return extra change when a cashier makes a mistake. .184
- I take more than I give. -.184
- I don't like to be judged. -.183
- If I feel bad in a relationship, I tend to think/feel it's the other person's fault. -.183
- I am optimistic. .182
- I like to antagonize others. -.182
- When I want something, I want it right away. -.182
- I am easy to satisfy. .181
- When you are wronged, consider the viewpoint of the wrongdoer, and feel sorry for mankind. .181
- I am relaxed most of the time. .180
- I am not competitive. .179
- It is important that I get my way. -.179
- I avoid blame. -.179
- I am good at resisting temptation. .179
- No matter how much attention I get, it's never enough. -.178
- I try to examine myself objectively. .178
- I have a strong need for power. -.177
- I find controlling others rewarding. -.176
- I use anger to control people and situations. -.176
- I have no need for power over others. .175
- I'm jealous of people that I think are better than me. -.174
- It is very important that I am liked and I will bend the truth if I have to to ensure that. -.174
- I like to argue. -.173
- I don't know my heart. -.173
- When I want something from someone I can be very nice, when I don't I can be very mean. -.173
- I am not easily bothered by things. .172
- I enjoy duping/decieving people. -.175
- I am faithful to friends. .175
- I can't handle romantic rejection. -.173
- I'm happy to occupy whatever position in society I best fit into regardless of whether it's prestigious. .173
- I tend to act out when I am being ignored. -.156
- I feel comfortable with myself. .171
- I am self-centered. -.171
- I believe that I am better than others. -.171
- Optimism is my oxygen. .170
- I am impatient. -.170
- I think about the causes of my emotions. .169
- I hold a grudge. -.169
- I attack others. -.169
- I ask for help. .169
- I expect others to serve me without reciprocating. -.169
- I only care about myself. -.168
- Others should be made to pay for their stupidity. -.168
- It is best to defeat your opponent without them knowing you've won. .168
- I'm standoff-ish. -.166
- I hate to judge others on how they look. .166
- I am generally a very happy person. .166
- I feel perfectly justified in getting my way, all the time. -.166
- I have contempt for people that are inferior to me. -.166
- I feel I must respect the decisions made by my group. .165
- Finding out my thinking about something important is wrong unsettles me. -.165
- I am concerned about others. .165
- I like to rebel for the sake or rebellion. -.164
- I meet my obligations. .164
- I find it easy to manipulate others. -.163
- I'm uncomfortable having friends that are better looking than me. -.163
- I control others. -.163
- When I'm depressed, I like to help people. .162
- When I go out, I expect to be bought drinks by members of the opposite sex. -.161
- What other people want is as important as what I want. .161
- My need to be appreciated exceeds my capacity to appreciate others. -.161
- I would say I'm more of a critic than a contributor. -.161
- The most important thing to me is humility. .161
- I always honor my promises to others. .160
- I have a mature understanding of life. .160
- I do not like to appear better than others. .160
- It's all in what you and your heart tell you and how you percieve those messages. .160
- I have a need to appear better than others. -.159
- When I see a person I like connecting with someone else, it bothers me. -.159
- If I'm not the best at something, I'm not interested in it. -.159
- I remain calm under pressure. .157
- Romantically, the burden is on the other person to prove they love me. -.157
- If everyone I was attracted to, thought I was unattractive, I could live with that. .157
- My enjoyment admiring things exceeds my desire to be admired. .157
- I enjoy hurting others. -.157
- I don't like taking orders. -.156
- I focus entirely on getting attention. -.156
- Internal beauty is more important than external beauty. .156
- I feel hugely anxious and self-conscious all the time. -.156
- I have kept people on the hook who I had no interest in romantically because I enjoyed the attention. -.155
- Anything is possible. .155
- I don't think that other people are 'better or worse' than me. .155
- I like things I can control. -.154
- I love to be complimented.- .154
- I am controlling. -.153
- I am willing to be misunderstood. .153
- I am flexible. .153
- I can make anybody believe anything I want them to. -.153
- I like change.- -.153
- My trajectory in life is downhill. -.152
- Money can buy happiness. -.152
- How I feel/think about myself does not rely on the opinions of others. .152
- I am very suspicious of others. -.152
- I am very sarcastic. -.152
- I am more calm than worrying. .152
- I am determined to have my own way. -.152
- Achieving an aim or task gives me greater satisfaction than receiving praise or recognition. .152
- I often eat too much. -.152
- I would rather please myself than others.- .151
- My own happiness and success are more important than the happiness and success of others.- .151
- My self esteem is based on how attractive others think I am. -.150
- I am simple. .150
- I am self sufficient. .150
- Integrity is more important than loyalty. .150
- I an unhappy if I don't have the upper hand in Romantic relationships. -.150
- I choose my words with care. .149
- The best rewards are internal. .149
- I prefer a basic/simple/spartan living space to a high-end/luxury one. .149
- I am able to fit into any situation. .148
- I ridicule others. -.148
- Every day is a new adventure. .148
- No matter how bad life gets, I'll always fight though it. .148
- I radiate joy. .147
- I get upset easily.- .147
- I like to demean other people. -.147
- I am a team player. .146
- I search for and acknowledge any internal contradictions, then I amend my beliefs accordingly. .146
- I am more likely to avoid feeling certain things that will conflict with how I think. -.146
- Power for its own sake doesn't interest me. .146
- I am hot-headed (overtly or covertly). -.146
- I give more than I take. .145
- I am argumentitive. -.145
- I enjoy conflict. -.144
- My image is more important than the truth. -.144
- I have good self restraint. .144
- I need the approval of others. -.143
- I focus entirely on avoiding romantic relationship rejection. -.143
- I get chores done right away. .143
- I anticipate the needs of others. .142
- I would rather be the appreciator than the appreciated romantically. .142
- Happiness is about self improvement not ascending the social hierarchy. .142
- I am aware at a detailed level of what is going on in my body including my emotional state. .142
- I don't always do what I say I will do.- .142
- I am open about myself to others. .142
- I have a broad outlook on what is going on. .141
- I get back at others. -.140
- I have a good word for everyone. .140
- People are so boring and predictable. -.140
- I'm not interested in friendships I can't control. -.140
- I'm generally attracted to someone very different from me. .140
- I don't know who I am. -.140
- I am very skilled at seduction. -.140
- Doing volunteer work is a waste of time. -.139
- The world should be as I want it to be. -.139
- I put others first. .139
- Criticism or scolding hurts me quite a bit. -.139
- The definition of a good agreement is one that benefits me and the other party equally. .139
- I am very considerate of my own feelings but not so considerate of other people's feelings. -.138
- I take existing ideas and link them together in new and interesting ways. .138
- Knowing who you are = knowing what makes you happy. .138
- I can be callous. -.136
- accommodating 00000 unaccommodating -.137
- People I decieve are fools who should have known better. -.137
- I am more calm than worrying. .136
- I adapt easily to new situations. .136
- I'm living in the best part of my life right now. .136
- I am sure of my ground. .136
- I can't determine whether I am good or bad. -.139
- Physical appearance is everything. -.136
- I take the initiative. -.135
- Winning is very important to me. -.135
- I focus entirely on getting my own way, helping myself. -.135
- I believe that others have good intentions.- -.135
- I always know how I feel. .134
- If someone I romantically like says they may not be interested in me enough to pursue things, I move on. .134
- I love my enemies. .134
- I am dependable. .134
- Mistakes are just a normal part of life. .133
- I like to have power over others. -.133
- I don't pretend to be more than I am. .133
- It is important to give indecisive people even more space to make up their mind. .133
- We are responsible for who we are. .133
- My own happiness and success are more important than the happiness and success of others.- .133
- I see beauty in things that others might not notice. .132
- People tell me that I'm a good listener. .132
- I am adaptable. .132
- I am reliable. .132
- I prefer things to stay as they are. -.131
- What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. .131
- I believe in letting people be who they are, even if I really care about them, even if who they are is killing them. .131
- I tend to avoid people that contradict my ideals. -.131
- I am simple. .131
- I get upset when people don't notice how I look when I go out in public. -.130
- I focus more on what I like (what I find attractive) than being liked (being attractive to others). .130