I see myself as calm, emotionally stable. .399
No matter how bad life gets, I get through it. .357
I am courageous. .325
I don't care what others think. .305
I am easily discouraged. -.295
I get upset easily.- .295
I'm a born leader. .285
I have high self esteem. .277
My need to be appreciated by others is very low. .276
I am good at making impromptu speeches. .275
I worry about what people think of me. -.273
I am easily moved to tears. -.267
I feel hugely anxious and self-conscious all the time. -.265
I am usually quite confident when learning a new game or sport. .262
I get teary eyed easily. -.254
I feel it's OK that some people don't like me. .250
I am generally a very happy person. .250
I have good self restraint. .247
I fear being judged by others. -.244
I am at peace with myself. .242
I have a lot of will power. .240
I love to think up new ways of doing things. .237
I am in control of almost every aspect of my life. .236
Being disliked by others causes me anxiety. -.234
I take risks. .232
I have a natural talent for influencing people. .232
I usually fear for the worst.- .232
Every day is a new adventure. .225
I am inclined to rely more on improvisation. .221
I don't like to be judged. -.216
I am optimistic. .216
I rarely feel self-conscious in a strange group. .215
I fear taking control, leading. -.213
How I feel/think about myself does not rely on the opinions of others. .213
I am happy with my life. .212
I am self sufficient. .210
I am very skilled at seduction. .210
I am weak and need a stronger person to carry me through life. -.209
I know how to get around the rules. .206
I see flaws/weaknesses as opportunites for fixes/improvements. .206
I have a fear of public speaking. -.205
No matter how good things are I find something th complain about. -.205
I am adaptable. .205
Optimism is my oxygen. .204
My needs for closeness and emotional safety overwhelm me. -.203
When I'm not happy, I make changes to my life. .202
I see myself as open to new experiences, complex. .201
I seek danger. .201
I can make anybody believe anything I want them to. .198
I try to experience life entirely in the moment. .198
I am very skilled at achievement. .198
No matter how bad life gets, I'll always fight though it. .198
After a break up, I'd rather mourn the end of the relationship for months than move on with my life. -.196
I can usually talk my way out of anything. .194
I can't handle romantic rejection. -.194
I am more preoccupied with what I like than with being liked. .194
I can put on a convincing smile if the situation calls for it no matter how I really feel internally. .194
A good friend challenges me. .193
I thrive on problem solving. .193
I don't understand people who get emotional. .192
I fear taking control, leading. -.192
I objectively measure the external world to achieve measurable goals. .191
I am not concerned with making a good impression. .190
It is hard for me to make a decision if I don't know how I feel about it. -.190
I focus entirely on making decisions logically. .190
I don't measure my success by public opinion. .189
My attention tends to be on the present moment and current experience rather than on past events or future possibilities. .189
Taking risks does not bother me if the gains involved are high. .188
If someone I romantically like says they are not interested in me enough to pursue things, I move on. .188
I can talk others into doing things. .187
I will not be taken advantage of. .187
I find reinforcement within myself, not others. .186
I am open to change. .186
I am energetic. .184
I seek adventure. .182
I am flexible. .181
I could be happy living anywhere. .180
If I was put in isolation with only food and water I would not last very long. -.180
I always know how to act. .179
I am a capable person. .177
I like to be masculine. .177 (men)
I don't care if people think I'm awesome. .177
Anything is possible. .176
I feel comfortable around people. .176
I don't need any more anxiety in my life. -.173
Approval is very important to me. -.172
I find living my life rewarding. .172
I love to chat. .172
I see myself as dependable, self-disciplined. .171
I identify with powerful / dominating types. .171
I modify models and frameworks to accommodate new data, thereby preserving inner logical consistency. .171
I am more talented than average and thus have more responsibility to contribute to the world. .170
I am willing to try anything once. .169
Romantically, I imagine abandoning behavior, even when/where it doesn't exist. -.169
I don't like to feel left out. -.169
I can be clingy in a romantic relationship. -.169
I cannot survive without being loved by someone. -.168
I am good at resisting temptation. .168
I am able to manipulate others. .168
Nothing is more important than critical thinking. .168
I logically determine sequences and priorities needed to efficiently complete a task of manage a program. .169
I have a mature understanding of life. .168
Most people are better than me. -.167
I have vigorous health. .165
People are things to be used. .164
I'm living in the past.-.164
I take existing ideas and link them together in new and interesting ways. .164
I have taught myself to stuff and disconnect from my own feelings for years. .163
I make decisions based on feelings. -.163
I experience shame a lot. -.163
I readily see cause-effect relationships. .162
I would like to climb Mount Everest. .162
I am the greatest human being that has ever existed. .162
I have a heart of stone. .161
If someone's argument appears to be strong and contradicting of what I believe, I will listen all the more carefully. .160
I let my feelings strongly guide me. -.160
I would like to be a politician. .160
I have the freedom to become something other than my circumstances would normally produce. .159
I'm a free spirit. .158
I trust my logic over the logic of others. .158
I understand people who think differently. .157
When I want something that belongs to someone else, it is as good as mine. .157
I wnt to form my own opinions. .155
I'm jealous of people that I think are better than me. -.154
I live a life based on ordered, deductive logic based on objective criteria and external hierarchies(status, prestige, etc.). .154
When I'm depressed, I like to do something random. .157
I would associate with someone whose behavior had a negative effect on the world if that association was beneficial to me. .156
I focus more on what I like (what I find attractive) than being liked (being attractive to others). .154
I recognize that the real world is exactly what it appears to be and work with data provided by it. .152
If I meet someone I like, it's easy for me to ask them to hang out some time, i.e. initiate a friendship. .150
Safety is very important to me. -.149
I want to be different from others. .155
I want everything to be 'just right.' -.156
I find being in control rewarding. .153
I have identity issues. -.152
I can run very fast. .152
I find it easy to manipulate others. .151
I'm not a big risk taker. -.151
I have very good instincts. .151
I concentrate easily. .151
I live a life based on ongoing analysis, searching for definitive principles and mismatches thereof. .151
I seek deep emotional and spiritual intimacy. -.15
I see the world as it is. .15
I generally have the upper hand in my romantic relationships. .149
When I'm depressed, I like to do nothing. -.149
I can manage many things at the same time. .147
I enjoy being reckless. .147
Happiness is the most important thing in life. .147
If someone I romantically like says they may not be interested in me enough to pursue things, I move on. .147
The normal rules don't apply to me. .146
I am on the right path in life. .146
I lack empathy. .145
I meet my obligations. .144
I tend to ignore any feeling that undermines ideas I value. .144
I am highly aware of my immediate surroundings and using my five senses (hearing, sight, smell, touch, taste) to immediately react to them. .144
I am reliable. .144
I avoid dangerous situations. -.143
I have difficulty enduring even a mild degree of conflict with those close to me. -.143
I can't make it on my own. -.143
It is hard for me to make a decision if I don't know how I feel about it. -.143
I am aware at a detailed level of what is going on in my body including my emotional state. .143
I have little control over my own life. -.142
I feel lost. -.142
I find political discussions interesting. .142
It is difficult for me to read in a space that isn't quiet. -.141
I am defined by my internal compass (not an external one). .141
A good friend is more challenging than supportive. .139
My enjoyment admiring things exceeds my desire to be admired. .139
I sometimes feel as if I could sleep for a week. -.139
Defending my own ideas is very important. .139
I can be insensitive to the feelings of others. .139
I find independence/autonomy rewarding. .138
If I ruled the world it would be a better place. .137
People tell me that I am cold. .137
I need to be needed. -.137
I can get pretty much anyone to like me romantically. .136
I am controlled by my environment. -.136
I dislike physical/manual labor of any kind. -.136
I am special and chosen. .135
My actions are predominately motivated by how they'll cause others to view me. -.135
My self esteem is based on how attractive I am to others. -.135
I color my hair. -.135
I don't know who I am. -.134
When I'm depressed I don't have much attention to give. -.134
I do things that impress me. .134
Winning is very important to me. .133
I believe in brutal honesty. .133
I enjoy performing in front of people. .133
I am dependable. .132
Whatever will be, will be. .132
I am quick to spot inconsistencies. .132
I need another person similar to me to help get me through life. -.132
It is hard for me to make a decision if I don't know how others feel about it. -.131
People I decieve are fools who should have known better. .131
People have to be responsible for their own actions. .131
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. .130
I know how to be happy. .130
I find being appreciated rewarding. -.130